tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post8922772700420278970..comments2024-03-22T08:04:05.869-07:00Comments on 魚之樂: 工心計的好人Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-25851523417451646982010-04-03T23:41:22.420-07:002010-04-03T23:41:22.420-07:00是的,兩者所指的並不相同,但有些人兼而有之。是的,兩者所指的並不相同,但有些人兼而有之。mr_frankmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00777456221192666790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-17155812631526994872010-04-03T23:27:25.247-07:002010-04-03T23:27:25.247-07:00Franz,
你說的那種人是虛偽,跟工心計有點不同。Franz,<br /><br />你說的那種人是虛偽,跟工心計有點不同。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-68769907805147673032010-04-03T22:02:35.384-07:002010-04-03T22:02:35.384-07:00你的文章恰恰點出了我的一些煩惱。我也不喜歡別人工於心計,更不願意自己工於心計(除非我極不喜歡那人;幸...你的文章恰恰點出了我的一些煩惱。我也不喜歡別人工於心計,更不願意自己工於心計(除非我極不喜歡那人;幸好我暫時沒認識什麼我要和他打交道而我又極不喜歡的人)。有時要說一兩句過分客氣的話,連我自己也有些「不勝肉麻」。說起來,我無法喜歡那些信口開河,愛說「有空我一定會找你……!」的人(而他們卻不是做生意的;做生意的人說那種話,完全可以理解);到時你約他,他總有一大堆理由推辭。不想見就不想見,早早顯得不感興趣就是了,何況虛偽和「會說話」是不一樣的:「會說話」可以理解,也不必只為了自己,有時甚至是美德;但虛偽可以是很討厭的。mr_frankmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00777456221192666790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-88806690334706710822010-03-31T00:03:55.250-07:002010-03-31T00:03:55.250-07:00yan,
這倒跟我一樣。yan,<br /><br />這倒跟我一樣。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-55683966695327091342010-03-31T00:02:24.143-07:002010-03-31T00:02:24.143-07:00hahahahahah, 對對對。我有不少作假的時候,但很容易給人看穿...hahahahahah, 對對對。我有不少作假的時候,但很容易給人看穿...Yanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05543452661425487649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-4072154786053229232010-03-30T23:42:18.282-07:002010-03-30T23:42:18.282-07:00yan,
你說溜了嘴啦,原來你是假的真不了,不是真的假不了!yan,<br /><br />你說溜了嘴啦,原來你是假的真不了,不是真的假不了!W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-50232624276913636272010-03-30T23:38:14.266-07:002010-03-30T23:38:14.266-07:00恐怕不能了,一來我未結婚,二來我向來把我的感情盡放在臉上,假的真不了,沒可能做到一流工心計的人。恐怕不能了,一來我未結婚,二來我向來把我的感情盡放在臉上,假的真不了,沒可能做到一流工心計的人。Yanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05543452661425487649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-31971492471295416122010-03-30T23:30:01.555-07:002010-03-30T23:30:01.555-07:00yan,
你親身體驗一下便成了。yan,<br /><br />你親身體驗一下便成了。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-33199794829883697452010-03-30T23:22:44.767-07:002010-03-30T23:22:44.767-07:00RandomCoil,
I would say politics may push people ...RandomCoil,<br /><br />I would say politics may push people to become more 工心計.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-66386985234898010472010-03-30T23:09:21.327-07:002010-03-30T23:09:21.327-07:00我反而有興趣知道工心計的人的整個生命是怎個狀態。我想,一流的工心計的人面對他的老婆時是不能禁止使用他...我反而有興趣知道工心計的人的整個生命是怎個狀態。我想,一流的工心計的人面對他的老婆時是不能禁止使用他的絶招,那是怎個光景?Yanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05543452661425487649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-38759117090303713262010-03-30T20:05:25.493-07:002010-03-30T20:05:25.493-07:00RandomCoil:
Unfortunately, your colleague is not ...RandomCoil:<br /><br />Unfortunately, your colleague is not wrong about that... Politics, connections, name recognition...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-75378236982050826332010-03-30T15:59:17.506-07:002010-03-30T15:59:17.506-07:00Politics is about 工心計?
Was discussing with my col...Politics is about 工心計?<br /><br />Was discussing with my colleague about a cross-disiplinary grant application... He was talking about collaborating with some people to improve our chance, 'It is all about politics...' He kept on and on...<br /><br />Eventually I couldn't stop myself from smiling...<br />'What are you smiling at?'<br />'Nothing. just hope it works out.'<br /><br />I think I would try to avoid working with the colleague...RandomCoilhttp://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com