tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post6395554817643796574..comments2024-03-22T08:04:05.869-07:00Comments on 魚之樂: 網上真我Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-10932139601083166402011-02-07T00:49:30.512-08:002011-02-07T00:49:30.512-08:00我是否文如其人,對你大概不重要,因為你不認識我。然而,我的讀者中有我的朋友,我有信心他們都不會認為我...我是否文如其人,對你大概不重要,因為你不認識我。然而,我的讀者中有我的朋友,我有信心他們都不會認為我在這裏用文字裝飾自己。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-72667597923731517452011-02-06T21:44:43.364-08:002011-02-06T21:44:43.364-08:00亞王:
很久沒有上internet,看到你此文,幾忙都好,都要借用你平台,發洩一下.
有一位朋友...亞王:<br /><br />很久沒有上internet,看到你此文,幾忙都好,都要借用你平台,發洩一下.<br /><br />有一位朋友網絡上寫作已有經年,每天都寫,從不間斷,當然談的題目多樣化,而我認識此友多過十年,經年相處,真個性情,當然好瞭解.<br /><br />去年開始看他blog,感覺是:如文描述個人性情,品格,情理,真寫得好好,與現實中的他,恰恰相反.若果不深入認識此君,必被他文字誤導,給他虛偽文字騙到,看到那些在他個人網絡上留言,就知道他的偽裝成功了.<br /><br />我並不認識亞王,從文中咸感覺你的誠及真,但我不敢肯定,你是否像我此友,真的矇騙了不少純真的網友.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-31569901624712392972011-02-04T20:56:21.934-08:002011-02-04T20:56:21.934-08:00嗯,轉貼的沒所謂,有些人整個blog只有別人的文章,亦沒標明出處,就有點那個了……嗯,轉貼的沒所謂,有些人整個blog只有別人的文章,亦沒標明出處,就有點那個了……Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11980469605003820804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-57359626389279795782011-02-03T21:55:13.752-08:002011-02-03T21:55:13.752-08:00Dom,
//我在blog裡寫的,都是些事無不可對人言,但生活中未必對每位朋友都會主動提出的話題,...Dom,<br /><br />//我在blog裡寫的,都是些事無不可對人言,但生活中未必對每位朋友都會主動提出的話題,就當讓別人多認識自己好了。//<br /><br />- 我寫blog多少也有點這個意思。<br /><br />//有些人喜歡抄文章,當成自己寫的放在blog裡//<br /><br />- 有些不過是轉貼,公諸同好而已。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-1124608432917464032011-02-03T19:31:43.566-08:002011-02-03T19:31:43.566-08:00我將blog當成是與朋友溝通的另一道橋樑︰平常人與人相處,或多或少總有所遷就避忌,例如你未必會對新相...我將blog當成是與朋友溝通的另一道橋樑︰平常人與人相處,或多或少總有所遷就避忌,例如你未必會對新相識的女性朋友說葷笑話,而我在blog裡寫的,都是些事無不可對人言,但生活中未必對每位朋友都會主動提出的話題,就當讓別人多認識自己好了。<br /><br />相比起角色扮演的blogger,有些人喜歡抄文章,當成自己寫的放在blog裡 — blogger寫文章本就免費,我的態度是隨便任抄,問題是,寫blog本來只求一抒己見,既沒己見,寫來作甚?Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11980469605003820804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-74945479385420605502011-02-03T05:21:56.673-08:002011-02-03T05:21:56.673-08:00噢,我的文筆當然不屬雄健,至於「嚇暈」,是那位讀者留言說的。噢,我的文筆當然不屬雄健,至於「嚇暈」,是那位讀者留言說的。readandeathttp://ireadandeat.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-76023220110220250312011-02-02T15:25:41.747-08:002011-02-02T15:25:41.747-08:00文少,
//至於作虛擬身份寫blog﹐其實並唔難//
- 的確不難,當然,要寫得吸引人看則不容易...文少,<br /><br />//至於作虛擬身份寫blog﹐其實並唔難//<br /><br />- 的確不難,當然,要寫得吸引人看則不容易。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-67117564687052273892011-02-02T11:42:29.609-08:002011-02-02T11:42:29.609-08:00如果一開始就唔遮遮掩掩﹐就無問題。
至於作虛擬身份寫blog﹐其實並唔難﹐定好人設﹐其實就無問題。
...如果一開始就唔遮遮掩掩﹐就無問題。<br />至於作虛擬身份寫blog﹐其實並唔難﹐定好人設﹐其實就無問題。<br />例如曹某以鴉仔寫白粉報﹐就同以陶某身份寫文差十萬八千里。文少http://jonathan_sky.mysinablog.com/index.phpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-14921272259802410062011-02-02T09:59:33.116-08:002011-02-02T09:59:33.116-08:00Snowdrops,
Thanks! Happy Chinese New Year to you ...Snowdrops,<br /><br />Thanks! Happy Chinese New Year to you too.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-80517422098538870732011-02-02T09:25:57.064-08:002011-02-02T09:25:57.064-08:00Ah, I now see you meant "too frank" rath...Ah, I now see you meant "too frank" rather than "too sincere" per se. Yes, I agree, there is such a thing as being too frank... Unfortunately I'm often a worst offender of "talking too much and too often about things that people normally do not reveal to others" on my blog! Oh well... <br /><br />Anyway, just want to wish you and yours a happy Year of the Rabbit Wong and indeed R&E and everyone else above :)Snowdropshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15962700356638572864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-87021896573717659852011-02-02T08:52:16.960-08:002011-02-02T08:52:16.960-08:00Snowdrops,
//I'm not sure I understand this b...Snowdrops,<br /><br />//I'm not sure I understand this bit. Really, what is meant by "真誠得過了份"?//<br /><br />- See above.<br /><br />//Can a person be "too sincere" if s/he is blogging about his/her feelings and viewpoints online? "Too sincere" for whom?//<br /><br />- Yes, if s/he is talking too much and too often about things that people normally do not reveal to others.<br /><br />//So now maybe you should all ignore all my previous comments on here as I'm clearly just faking it :P//<br /><br />- If you faked so well, I would be more than happy to be taken in.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-62116966343681522832011-02-02T07:42:09.128-08:002011-02-02T07:42:09.128-08:00readandeat,
//我開始寫網誌時也是用中性身份的,的確有人以為我是男人。還留言說當知道我...readandeat,<br /><br />//我開始寫網誌時也是用中性身份的,的確有人以為我是男人。還留言說當知道我不是時「嚇暈」了。//<br /><br />- 為甚麼「嚇暈」?是因為你文筆雄健,似個男人?W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-36190430992812192832011-02-02T07:40:03.126-08:002011-02-02T07:40:03.126-08:00karol,
//不明白真誠如何可以「過了份」?真誠有程度之分嗎?有大真/中真/小真/真真和假真?...karol,<br /><br />//不明白真誠如何可以「過了份」?真誠有程度之分嗎?有大真/中真/小真/真真和假真?//<br /><br />- 當然可以。讓我舉例說明:假如我真心認為某朋友的英文很差,連做我學生我也嫌他程度太低;假如他問我他的英文文章寫得如何,我真誠地表達了我的看法,這可算是真誠得過了份,因為不顧別人感受,朋友亦很可能不覺得我是真誠、而是故意說扁他。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-81902090583963421362011-02-02T07:27:55.009-08:002011-02-02T07:27:55.009-08:00CYC,
//網上真我,網下真我,通常都差好遠。//
- 我覺得很多長期寫網誌者是例外。CYC,<br /><br />//網上真我,網下真我,通常都差好遠。//<br /><br />- 我覺得很多長期寫網誌者是例外。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-7567954629127492032011-02-02T05:37:36.788-08:002011-02-02T05:37:36.788-08:00arrgh, please mentally delete the redundant "...arrgh, please mentally delete the redundant "with" near the beginning of the second para!Snowdropshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15962700356638572864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-74727468938938914722011-02-02T05:35:02.931-08:002011-02-02T05:35:02.931-08:00"有時,一個人真誠得過了份,可能反而令人覺得他虛假;虛偽到家的人,裝作誠懇時,亦可能令人信..."有時,一個人真誠得過了份,可能反而令人覺得他虛假;虛偽到家的人,裝作誠懇時,亦可能令人信以為真摯。在這情況下,真我是流露了,別人卻未必看見,這在日常生活和網絡世界都會發生。"<br /><br />I'm not sure I understand this bit. Really, what is meant by "真誠得過了份"? Can a person be "too sincere" if s/he is blogging about his/her feelings and viewpoints online? "Too sincere" for whom?<br /><br />Speaking only for myself, I blog not with an audience in mind but with simply for the purpose of releasing pent-up words that I would have put in a paper journal if I am not living in the age of the Internet. How others read my blog and whether they think I am sincere or not is not a concern that I trouble myself with. After all, unlike Daisy Wong, I'm not using my blog as a platform to launch a whole writing career :) (but that said I do like it when people like my poems!)<br /><br />Also, I am extremely paranoid about human flesh searchers, after witnessing how scary Chinese people can be in this "art form" and in their self-righteousness as a moral police. So, given the choice of being seen as a fake versus exposing everything just to be taken as sincere by others, personally I would not hesitate to choose the former :)<br /><br />So now maybe you should all ignore all my previous comments on here as I'm clearly just faking it :PSnowdropshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15962700356638572864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-37415157281545988202011-02-02T04:22:26.302-08:002011-02-02T04:22:26.302-08:00我開始寫網誌時也是用中性身份的,的確有人以為我是男人。還留言說當知道我不是時「嚇暈」了。
如果寫的...我開始寫網誌時也是用中性身份的,的確有人以為我是男人。還留言說當知道我不是時「嚇暈」了。<br /><br />如果寫的是散文,不是小說的話,日久自然見人心,雖不中但亦不遠矣。<br /><br />至於虛偽的網誌,不看也罷。readandeathttp://ireadandeat.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-38781207862249074852011-02-02T01:00:49.911-08:002011-02-02T01:00:49.911-08:00不明白真誠如何可以「過了份」?真誠有程度之分嗎?有大真/中真/小真/真真和假真?
長期虛偽地寫網誌...不明白真誠如何可以「過了份」?真誠有程度之分嗎?有大真/中真/小真/真真和假真?<br /><br />長期虛偽地寫網誌,難度好高,而且,有何意義呢?karolnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-92010580540018739402011-02-02T00:49:13.621-08:002011-02-02T00:49:13.621-08:00網上真我,網下真我,通常都差好遠。網上真我,網下真我,通常都差好遠。CYCnoreply@blogger.com