tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post4648185068643230626..comments2024-03-22T08:04:05.869-07:00Comments on 魚之樂: 小城困局Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-30700167813315345532010-03-20T11:30:13.031-07:002010-03-20T11:30:13.031-07:00These are all good points. Thanks for sharing.These are all good points. Thanks for sharing.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-71734484921631994692010-03-20T11:06:49.377-07:002010-03-20T11:06:49.377-07:00"About dating students...
I think so long th..."About dating students...<br /><br />I think so long there is no conflict of interest it should be ok? I mean like if it is a PhD student from another department?"<br /><br />The chance that the Ph.D, student can get a job and stay at the same university is slim - so once the student graduates, he/she needs to move and they will need to deal with the two-body problem eventually. <br /><br />And in a small college town, dating a graduate student even from another department could generate nasty gossips...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-28897474148248048532010-03-20T11:02:21.396-07:002010-03-20T11:02:21.396-07:00I'm a college teacher myself. I live in a smal...I'm a college teacher myself. I live in a small city in the US, and it's a difficult for young single faculty. Not only that it's hard for them to find a potential partner/spouse, it's difficult for them to establish their social circles. People marry young here - most 20- or 30- somethings are already married with children. Social life here revolves around families with children - birthday parties, sports, etc. <br /><br />I'm married without kids - my husband lives in another city about 5-hour drive away and I see him over the weekends. When I first started the job, I found that many of the people I was hanging out with were colleagues with grown kids. Now things are finally getting better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-19190789912976767642010-03-19T10:59:22.158-07:002010-03-19T10:59:22.158-07:00RandomCoil,
Natural sciences and the humanities a...RandomCoil,<br /><br />Natural sciences and the humanities are different, I suppose.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-10971880448776774432010-03-19T10:40:59.118-07:002010-03-19T10:40:59.118-07:00You are good, Wong. The key is to strike a balance...You are good, Wong. The key is to strike a balance between work and family/marriage...<br /><br />Now I wonder if it is a self-selective process... how come people around me are all workaholic or maybe we are just inefficient :P ?RandomCoilhttp://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-85903331357031154192010-03-19T09:30:02.981-07:002010-03-19T09:30:02.981-07:00RandomCoil,
"I think so long there is no con...RandomCoil,<br /><br />"I think so long there is no conflict of interest it should be ok? I mean like if it is a PhD student from another department?"<br /><br />- True. But many small colleges do not have graduate programs.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-24304595238221824692010-03-19T09:28:50.724-07:002010-03-19T09:28:50.724-07:00RandomCoil,
"Even if the couples can live to...RandomCoil,<br /><br />"Even if the couples can live together, there is still a lot of problem with academics... who would like to 'live' with someone who has no life outside work?"<br /><br />- Not true of me though.W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-35713001366863450492010-03-19T02:22:30.852-07:002010-03-19T02:22:30.852-07:00About dating students...
I think so long there is...About dating students...<br /><br />I think so long there is no conflict of interest it should be ok? I mean like if it is a PhD student from another department?RandomCoilhttp://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-37416279595627195212010-03-19T02:14:05.257-07:002010-03-19T02:14:05.257-07:00很有同感。
A lot of my friends have this 2-body issue....很有同感。<br /><br />A lot of my friends have this 2-body issue. Some started off working in two different places. One of my friends almost got divorce because of that and had to give up her job and move in with her husband... but she never found another comparable job...<br /><br />Even if the couples can live together, there is still a lot of problem with academics... who would like to 'live' with someone who has no life outside work?<br />http://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/2009/11/15/d-trap-the-divorce-trap/RandomCoilhttp://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-22504510909297797452010-03-18T23:09:30.026-07:002010-03-18T23:09:30.026-07:00Meshi,
學生仍然是學生時當然免問,學生畢業後就會走了,想問已經太遲。Meshi,<br /><br />學生仍然是學生時當然免問,學生畢業後就會走了,想問已經太遲。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-17104726489972215252010-03-18T20:36:55.441-07:002010-03-18T20:36:55.441-07:00為甚麼「學生免問」?學生過幾年就不是學生了嘛。為甚麼「學生免問」?學生過幾年就不是學生了嘛。Meshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12656065273291410573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-54869510750293220002010-03-18T19:39:04.855-07:002010-03-18T19:39:04.855-07:00readandeat,
多謝多謝!我都舞得幾開心。readandeat,<br /><br />多謝多謝!我都舞得幾開心。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-51525196054620744722010-03-18T19:36:00.908-07:002010-03-18T19:36:00.908-07:00我看到了。謝謝﹗
可能是我沒有用先登入wordpress就留言。算了算了。
總之做得開心住得安樂...我看到了。謝謝﹗<br /><br />可能是我沒有用先登入wordpress就留言。算了算了。<br /><br />總之做得開心住得安樂就可以了。<br /><br />忘了說,你上次舞獅好勁喎。Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-17122526897764019492010-03-18T19:27:13.276-07:002010-03-18T19:27:13.276-07:00readandeat,
留言是否都出來了,抑或是仍然不見了;若是前者,你看不見留言時可先refle...readandeat,<br /><br />留言是否都出來了,抑或是仍然不見了;若是前者,你看不見留言時可先reflesh網頁一次。<br /><br />我也替你朋友高興,做了七年仍轉到工,可算百中無一。我不想拖著妻兒到處走,所以沒有申請過其他工作,但我住的城鎮不太小,亦不乏文化活動,連Pink Floyd和Joan Baez也來過表演,不至於只有牛那麼慘。W. Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07161244576570372004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-61616009168639999602010-03-18T18:15:35.393-07:002010-03-18T18:15:35.393-07:00噢,blogspot跟我有仇?
不好意思,好彩冇爆粗。
我去檢討吓我的脾氣。噢,blogspot跟我有仇?<br /><br />不好意思,好彩冇爆粗。 <br /><br />我去檢討吓我的脾氣。Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-32453773674619204582010-03-18T18:13:32.669-07:002010-03-18T18:13:32.669-07:00呀~~~~
我第二條留言又不見了﹗﹗我要投訴﹗﹗
明明話"your comment w...呀~~~~<br /><br />我第二條留言又不見了﹗﹗我要投訴﹗﹗<br /><br />明明話"your comment was published",又不見了﹗<br /><br />我不留了。好谷氣﹗Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-19568487865729917892010-03-18T18:10:44.788-07:002010-03-18T18:10:44.788-07:00testing。
我的留言又不見了。唉。仲好長添。testing。<br /><br />我的留言又不見了。唉。仲好長添。readandeathttp://readandeat.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4010478591191633760.post-74290877540554304602010-03-18T18:09:02.641-07:002010-03-18T18:09:02.641-07:00很有同感。很多華人都要隔幾年去找另一隻牛。現在學術市場僧多粥少(其實可能連粥都冇),如果拿不到終身教...很有同感。很多華人都要隔幾年去找另一隻牛。現在學術市場僧多粥少(其實可能連粥都冇),如果拿不到終身教席,朝不保夕,人工又少,不如轉行好過。<br /><br />美國有所謂大學城,一到假期,學生雞飛狗走,小城頓變死城。教書要住在那些鬼地方,真的悶鬼死。我的一位好友就是因為在小城找到教席,要全家搬去,幸好她是已婚,丈夫也很支持。我常在電話裡扮牛笑她(因為她家方圓附近人影不多,只有牛)。捱了七年,她終於可以在這裡找到另一教席了,暑假前就會回歸這裡,開心死我。readandeathttp://readandeat.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com